FinancialThere is a growing number of 30 somethings, 40 somethings, and 50 somethings who are looking to settle down in a nice stable relationship. When asked what you are looking for the list of must have and must not have rolls off their lips with the speed of Clarence Thomas running away from a NAACP convention. Dont get me wrong, there is nothing wrong in knowing what you want. We just need to understand that we will always get what we deserve.
Advice
Regardless of what you are looking for in a relationship partner you must face up to the following questions: Why would a person like that want to be with me? Now depending on where you stand in your life you may view that question as negative or empowering.
Our universe is filled with laws which govern everything around us and in us. The law of attraction is one of the most powerful and consistent laws that we can control. In short, it states that what you are you will attract. But, if you want a relationship with someone how has good credit then I must ask... How good is your credit? If you want someone who is in shape and healthy How healthy are you, now? If you want someone who is will take care of you How often do you take care of others?
I can easily show you how to have the relationship that you envision. The hard part is that you must start by making a list. And, the list should not be a list of what you want in a mate. You should start with a list of your own shortcomings. Thats right, I said it. Somebody had to tell you the truth.
Steps
Follow these few steps and I guarantee you that this will be the year that you develop the best relationship that you ever had.
1. Make a list of your faults. Consider what your exs complained about. Consider what you what you complain about yourself.
2. Review your list and group them into three categories. Some of your faults will be a result of another fault. If you stress out a lot, then that may be the reason for your overeating.
3. After you identify the three root causes of all your faults , you will pull out your calendar assign four months to each of the three problems. This will give you a years worth of effort.
This process requires you to work on building a better you for one year. The laws of attraction will begin to pull your ideal mate to you the moment you set out on this quest. It is funny how it works. One day you will be alone and the next day you are not. But, watch out, at the end of the process you just might find yourself in deeper love with yourself. And, that is always a good place to be in order to attract others who will love you too.
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